Wednesday, December 31, 2008

Parashah Roundup: Vayigash 5769

by Steve Brizel

Yosef's Reunion With His Brothers
  • R. Michael Rosensweig explores the ambivalent and complex nature of the reunion of Yosef and his brothers: link
  • R. Dovid Horwitz, R. Baruch Simon and R. Jonathan Sacks discuss how Yehudah's entreaty to Yosef is evidence of his having done teshuvah and not being paralyzed by one's past: link 1, link 2 (audio), link 3
  • R. Yitchak Adlerstein, based upon the Nesivos Shalom and other Chasidic and Kabbalistic sources, shows that Yehudah's plea before Yosef is filled with allusions as to proper prayer: link
  • R. Yissocher Frand and R Baruch Simon connect Yosef's emotional reaction with the source of the Churban Bayis Sheni and the importance of Ahavas Yisrael: link 1, link 2 (audio)
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  • R. Berel Wein suggests that we should use the reunion of Yosef and his brothers as a template for uniting Klal Yisrael: link
  • R. Yitzchak Etshalom probes why Yosef reacted in an emotional manner and what Yosef intended in his charade with the brothers: link
  • R. Avraham Gordimer explains how Yosef's gifts to his brothers enabled them to do teshuvah: link
  • R. Beinish Ginsberg, based upon a famous comment of the Beis HaLevi, exhorts us not to allow ourselves to be placed in the same place as Yehudah when Yosef asks him “Haod Avi Chai”: link (audio)
  • R. Avigdor Nevenzal shows why Yosef's behavior is a prime example of how one should not bear a grudge: link

  • The Seventy Souls
  • R. Yaakov Medan investigates who were the seventy persons who entered Egypt: link

  • The Reunion of Yaakov and Yosef
  • R. Aharon Lichtenstein explains why Yaakov recited the Shma: link
  • R. Shlomo Riskin suggests why Yaakov had to travel to Egypt for the reunion with Yosef: link

  • The Begiinning of Exile
  • R. Zvi Sobolofsky reminds us that a Jew in exile must always see himself as a temporary resident (link) and explains why Yaakov sent Yehudah ahead to prepare the way.

  • Survival in Exile
  • R. Ephraim Buchwald exhorts us to remember that Jewish education is the key element to Jewish survival in exile: link

  • The Intergenerational Nature of the Mitzvah of Talmud Torah
  • R. Aharon Lichstenstein reminds us that the mitzvah of Talmud Torah is strengthened when a father learns with his children: link

  • Honoring Grandparents
  • R. Asher Weiss and R. Dovid Gottlieb explores the extent of the application of Kibud Av Vem to grandparents: link 1, link 2 (audio)


  • Last year's roundup: link


    Audio Roundup XXIII

    by Joel Rich

    EDITOR'S NOTE

    I’ve listened to a lot of great Chanukah shiurim over the years with a lot of great mussar, and I almost begin to understand the Deah V’dibbur/R' Schwab approach (link), (i.e. it's not so important to tell the historical truth as it is to have history make the point you want it to) but……… then I think of R’Y Sacks Chanukah Shiur on what’s the big deal, they could have used tamei oil since tuma hutra btzibbur, but the lesson is chinuch must be on a l’chatchila foundation (i.e. if you build a house or a life on a weak foundation, it will eventually come back to haunt you). Think about it and then listen to the next shiurim and see this page (link) (i.e. in this case has history been redefined to comport with current hashkafa). In general I don't mind story telling to make a point, it's when you start confusing historical truth with what you would like it to be that I get testy (e.g. call it a historical dramatization and I'm OK)

  • Rabbi Dr. Jacob Reiner - The Hasmonean Encounter: Hellenism vs. Judaism: link

    The Hellenists culture was the first time Judaism confronted an attractive alien culture (generally you were Hellenist or barbarian!) Many wanted to be associated with it, especially the leadership (Tzdukim). Very worthwhile listening for an academic/religious background of the entire time period.
    P.S. He’s Msupak on how to understand the medrash that all Kohanim gedolim who were evil would die upon entering Kodesh Kadashim.

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  • Rabbi Uri Orlian - Torah vs. Chachma Yevanis: link

    The Talmud records the Rabbis praying for the desire for idol worship to be removed but this also removed a sensitivity to spirituality. The Greeks had chochmah enoshit but we have elokit which is greater (clearer revelation). Real miracle was pushed away dilution of Torah.
    IMHO we don’t see chazal focused on a victory over chochmah Yevanit, and in fact the “secular” knowledge is not a challenge; the Greek body and idol worship yes – but don’t throw away the baby with the bath water!

  • The Torah in motion website (I’ve previously reviewed the free downloads) has some interesting looking shiurim. I will indicate the pay per view shiurim.
  • Can all Religions be True? Reflections of a Rabbi at Yale Divinity School - Rabbi Meir Soloveichik (Pay): link

    Interesting discussion of what R’Meir learned at Yale Divinity School. He doesn’t believe in multiple truths/religious relativism but does believe in a commonality based on seeking truth in a religious context. We have a shared desire for imitato dei and a shared enemy in secularism. Good discussion of R’YBS’S “Confrontation” and his guidelines.
    FWIW my experience in dealing with other denominational clergy in a business context (e.g. hospitals, business functions) has been that they feel they have more in common with me than some of their laity (I wish the same were true of Rabbis :-)).

  • Rabbi Z Cinamon -The Chiyuv of Talmud Torah: link

    To know, know, know him, is to love, love, love him, and I do (Me-Phil Spector before he went off the deep end) . Focus on sliding scale of mitzvah of Talmud Torah per the GRA (me – chazon Ish – I learn when I have time). Challenge is how to define what is “necessary” (me – much like my parents telling me – do your best – great philosophy but implementation requires continual calibration.

  • Mrs. Shayna Goldberg - Responses to Reproductive Challenges: Insights From the Avot and Emahot: link

    Worthwhile listening for all – lessons regarding infertility from the avot and imahot but, imho more importantly, lessons regarding adversity and sensitivity which need extreme reinforcement in a sometimes very callous world.

  • Rabbi Ezra Schwartz - Contemporary Halacha Chazara Shiur: link

    Great summary of detailed practical halachik shiurim. Discussion includes cohanim and cemeteries, lfnel iver (duraita, drabanan and implications for heterim), tuna and veal kashrut (no one wants to go on record that R’Moshe may have been wrong on mtziut), and miyut hamatzui – what does it actually mean (if I can artificially reduce incidence rate below 10%, do I still check? Is it 10% of one trial or 10% that I’ll eat one bug in one sitting? One day? One year?)

  • Rabbi Menachem Genack - The Contemporary Questions of Industrial Shechita: link

    Some general halachot of shechita followed by some fascinating discussion of the history of shechita pens in the U.S. and elsewhere (e.g. South America) and the politics in trying to get some others (poskim and companies) to realize that PETA may have some real issues that could be addressed to avoid a PR/chillul hashom nighmsare. Rubashkin and practical issues of balancing priorities also discussed.

  • Rabbi Michael Taubes - The Prohibition against Intermarriage: link

    Do you want to know the specific source(s) or the prohibition(s) of intermarriage? Here’s the place.

  • Eliyahu - Rabbi A Bazak: link

    Even though Ahav had 4 degrees of separation between him and execution of Navot, leaders can’t hide behind plausible deniability (me- nor should any of us)
    It does seem like in the end Ahav acknowledged his sins.

  • Rabbi Pinny Rosenthal - A Modern Orthodox Chanukah Reconsidered: link

    Uncle Harry and his Chanukah party. Lessons to be learned.

  • Rabbi Yossi Azose - Birkas HaChamah: Understanding a Unique and Rare Blessing: link

    Interesting discussion, mostly focused on why we really say this at the “wrong” time (you know – like 12/4 being the equinox).

  • Rabbi Mayer Twersky - Chanukah: A message for our Generation: link

    We are only stewards of money (resources), only real money that is ours is that which we use for mitzot (tzedakah), money is a means not an ends……

  • Shoveling Snow on Shabbos

    I was asked about shoveling snow on Shabbos. This is a question that you need to ask your rabbi, but I'll discuss the issues without drawing a conclusion.

    I. Muktzah

    One issue is whether snow is muktzah. Ostensibly, this is a simple matter because it is discussed by early authorities. Generally, you my not use something which comes into existence on Shabbos. It is considered nolad, as if it is newly born or created, and is a subcategory of muktzah. However, the Gemara (Eiruvin 46a; cf. Tosafos, Beitzah 2a s.v. ka) states that rain is not considered nolad because the moisture was in the air long before the rain fell, and therefore you can use rainwater that falls on Shabbos. Evidently, this would also apply to snow, and this is how most authorities seem to rule (cf. R. Moshe Stern, Be'er Moshe 1:20; R. Yehoshua Neuwirth, Shemiras Shabbos Ke-Hilkhasah, ch. 16 n. 110).

    Click here to read moreHowever, in a characteristically radical but sensible ruling, R. Moshe Feinstein (quoted in The Halachos of Muktza, p. 165 n. 10) stated that snow is muktzah for a different reason. Since we do not normally use snow for anything and it is not food for animals, snow is muktzah like stones and sticks even if it fell before Shabbos.

    II. Destroying

    In 1957, there was a snow storm in Jerusalem on Shabbos and people asked R. Tzvi Pesach Frank whether they were allowed to clean the snow off their roofs (Har Tzvi, Tal Oros, soseir no. 1). One issue he raised is whether the snow has hardened or not. If it has hardened, it seems that since it has become attached to the ground it is considered part of the ground. Therefore, removing it would be similar to digging something out of the ground, which is prohibited on Shabbos. However, if it is soft snow then you are allowed to move it.

    R. Dovid Ribiat (The 39 Melachos, p. 1098) also points out that this discussion is only on a hard surface like a roof, sidewalk or driveway. You may not shovel even soft snow on dirt because that is considered smoothing out the surface, which is forbidden.

    III. Exertion

    R. Ribiat, in an endnote (I think 147d), quotes R. Avraham Weinfeld (Responsa Lev Avraham, no. 49) as ruling that shoveling snow is a problem of exertion on Shabbos. The Mishnah (Shabbos 126b) prohibits moving large objects on Shabbos because of the exertion. The only permission is to do it for a mitzvah. Similarly, reasons the Lev Avraham, shoveling would be prohibited unless it is to clear a path for people to walk to shul or to remove danger.

    IV. Carrying

    The above assumes that there is an eruv, and therefore there is no problem of carrying and/or moving the snow. What if there is no eruv? R. Menasheh Klein (Mishneh Halakhos vol. 5 no. 4: link) discusses whether, in a place where carrying is only rabbinically prohibited, you can shovel snow to prevent people from falling. He is hesitant to permit it because people often walk on snow so it is hard to determine when it is truly dangerous. He concludes that you may hire a Gentile to do it for you. Note that his assumption about where there is a biblical or rabbinic prohibition to carry is the subject of a large debate.


    Tuesday, December 30, 2008

    New Periodical: Azure no. 34 (Autumn 5769/2008)

    I recently received Azure no. 34 (Autumn 5769/2008). It has quite a few interesting articles about books and movies:
    • Not Our Mother's Feminism (link) by Marla Braverman - Opposing what she calls "Victim Feminism"
    • Man As His Own Maker (link) by David Heyd - Responding to a previous article by Leon Kass (Spring 5768/2008). Heyd argues in favor of genetic manipulation and cloning.
    • A Truer Humanism (link) by Leon Kass - Rebuttal
    • 'Zohan' And The Quest For Jewish Utopia (link) by Michael B. Oren - Review of comedy movie by Adam Sandler about Israeli super-soldier who moves to New York: an expression of American Jewish utopianism.
    • Who Needs Job Security by Omer Moav and Ofer Cohen - Argues that the American model of at-will employment is better than European or the current Israeli models. Seems obvious to this American but I guess others need convincing. Although given the current financial crisis, a little job security would be nice.
    • Israel and the Palestinians: A New Strategy (link) by Moshe Yaalon - Israel and the world need to facilitate the building of a solid Palestinian society before any peace can be made. Yaalon offers a number of areas in which progress must be made simultaneously -- including ending corruption, strengthening the judiciary, consolidating the armed forces, changing the education curriculum.
    • The Jihad That Wasn't (link) by Yoav Gelber - A review of Benny Morris' 1948 (discussed in this post: link). Mainly quibbles on a number of historical points but recommend the book overall.
    • The CIA Gets An F (link) by Shmuel Rosner - Review of a book that tells the history of the CIA and chronicles its many colossal failures.
    • Batman's War On Terror (link) by Benjamin Kerstein - A review of the movie Dark Knight. Argues that the movie raises many of the difficult issues of living in an age of terrorism and, significantly, leaves the problems as open questions.


    The Magen David

    By: Rabbi Ari Enkin

    No one is quite sure where the Magen David, the "Shield of David", originates from. Even more mysterious is what caused the Magen David to become the national symbol for the Jewish people. The Magen David may actually have been an adaptation of the pentagram (five-pointed star) which was widely used in a number of ancient religions. The earliest archaeological source testifying to the common usage of a Magen David is from remains found in an ancient synagogue in northern Israel dated to the 6th century BCE. Today, the Magen David, which consists of two interlocking triangles, is to be found on Jewish ritual items and accessories of all kinds. God Himself is referred to in our prayers as the "Magen David".[1]

    Click here to read moreThere is a theory that the phrase "Magen David" is to be taken literally, and that it refers to an actual shield that King David used in battle, though this is highly improbable. Indeed, this theory is refuted by a credible tradition that there was a Menora engraved upon the shield which King David used in wartime.[2] As such, it is highly unlikely that the word "magen" is to be taken literally, referring to a shield used in battle. Nevertheless, perhaps this idea can be expanded to suggest that the Magen David, with its six points along with its center space, is actually intended to allude to the Menorah and its seven branches. The number seven plays a prominent role in many areas of Jewish thought and ritual to which the Magen David may have been intended to recall.

    Therefore, the word "Magen" is likely referring to some sort of spiritual – not not physical - shield. Alternatively, it may merely another word for "badge" or "banner" which represents "David" and by extension, the Jewish people.[3] In fact, throughout history, Jews would go to war not only with physical weapons but also with with spiritual ones, such as prayer and the conviction that it is only with God's assistance that victory can be assured.

    It may just be, however, that the armour used during the Bar Kochba era was engraved with a Magen David. Indeed, it is interesting to note that the name "Bar Kochba" means "Son (founder?) of the Star". There are also legends that the Macabees engraved a Magen David on all their battle gear. It is also interesting to note that in the 1500's the Jewish community of Prague was represented by a flag with a six pointed star in its center.

    A number of scholars suggest that the Magen David may be linked to a verse in the book of Tehillim[4] where there is an allusion to Jewish kings using that symbol as their banner.[5] A six-pointed triangular figure is said to have represented royalty in ancient times. It is also intended to recall that a Jew is to receive his inspiration from all six corners of the world and that God's dominion extends in every direction. Incidentally, when one recites the Shema one is to have in mind that God rules over all six directions of the world.[6] Accoridng to kabbalistic interpretation, the two triangles which make up the Magen David represent the physical and spiritual worlds respectively, as well as the relationship between God and mankind. The ten sefirot of kabbala were often represented within the sketch of a six pointed star.

    From the days of the Arizal, people had the custom of making and wearing amulets with a Magen David. It was recommended that pregnant women wear a Magen David as a segula for an easy childbirth. There are also those who contend that the Magen David was actually the seal of King Solomon which he used in order to control demons,[7] though there is little support for this theory. Yet others argue that the roots of the six pointed star originate from the book of Isaiah where the six aspects of God's spirit are described.[8]

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    Special thanks to "Steg (dos iz nit der shteg)" for his continued editing and proofreading services!!

    [1] Cf. Blessings following the Haftorah
    [2] Igra D'pirka 176 cited in Minhag Yisrael Torah 90:4
    [3] Igrot Moshe O.C. 3:15
    [4] Psalms 18:34,35
    [5] Eretz Hachaim to Tehillim 18, cited in Minhag Yisrael Torah 90:4
    [6] O.C. 61:6
    [7] Gittin 68a
    [8] Yeshayahu 11:2


    Monday, December 29, 2008

    The Zoo Rabbi Defends His Detractors

    R. Natan Slifkin has taken the unusual step of writing an essay to explain and justify the ban on his books (link - PDF):
    Several years have elapsed, and the defenders of the ban have not gotten over their embarrassment. At least two further written rejoinders are in the works, both of which are likely to fail in the impossible task of rewriting the history of Jewish scholarship. Since nobody is presenting a remotely reasonable defense of the ban, I have decided to pen one myself. For it is my belief that, properly understood, the ban on my books is eminently justifiable.
    Keep in mind that there is an active blog, whose author occasionally comments here, dedicated almost exclusively to attempting to disprove R. Slifkin's ideas. It is not R. Slifkin who is resurrecting this issue but his detractors who will not let it die.


    Announcements #067: Shea Rubenstein CD

    New CD from Shea Rubenstein

    My friend Chazzan Shea Rubenstein has released his first CD, titled Ohavti. Buy the CD and listen to song snippets here: link

    Below is a video of a song from the CD:




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    Sunday, December 28, 2008

    Jewish Charity In A New Era

    After Yosef explained Pharaoh's dream(s), he added a piece of advice on how to proceed (Gen. 41:33):
    ועתה ירא פרעה איש נבון וחכם וישיתהו על ארץ מצרים.
    Now therefore let Pharaoh select a man who is discerning and wise, and set him over the land of Egypt.
    Yosef insists that the man who is chosen be a navon and chakham. But why? Yosef has already laid out the plan for what to do so why does this man have to be so wise and discerning?

    Click here to read morePreviously, when explaining Pharaoh's dream(s), Yosef begins by saying that "God has told (higid) Pharaoh what He is about to do" (Gen. 41:25). That is before offering his explanation. Afterwards, Yosef says "God has shown (herah) Pharaoh what He is about to do" (Gen. 41:28). Why both? Why did God both tell Pharaoh and show him?

    It seems to me that when dealing with a future event that is similar to past events, you can tell someone about it and he will fully understand. However, when the future event is so unique that no one in living history has experienced anything like it, then telling is not enough and you need to illustrate it by showing it to him. Years of bounty had happened in the past and so had years of famine. So, on one level, God could tell Pharaoh what was going to happen. But the extent of the good and the bad, both in terms of severity and length of time, were so unique that telling was not enough and God had to show it to Pharaoh. If he had only told him, Pharaoh would not have understood how severe the issue would be. He would think it was like prior years he had experienced and not the unique, overwhelming event it would be.

    This, I suggest, is why Yosef said that Pharaoh has to choose someone who is a navon and a chakham. Chakham means wise, someone who is familiar with the existing governmental strategies with dealing with bountiful years and famines. Navon, on the other hand, means someone who is a creative genius, a person who can reach new levels of wisdom based on existing knowledge (meivin davar mitokh davar). If the years of bounty and famine were similar to past experiences, then all they would need is a chakham, someone who knew how to properly tax or raise funds in the good years and give out funds in the bad years. However, because this experience would be historically unique, they needed someone who was familiar with the old strategies but would also be sufficiently creative to move beyond those methods and arrive at approaches that would be appropriate for the unique circumstances. They needed someone who could create new methods of fundraising and fund-preserving in the good years and fund-distributing in the bad years, methods that would match the uniquely severe circumstances.

    As we find ourselves at the end of what is perhaps a unique period of wealth in the Jewish community and the beginning of what looks like a unique recessionary period, it seems that Jewish charities need to think creatively about how to raise money and how to distribute it. Old methods may not work anymore. The mega-donors may not be so mega anymore and charities have to beware of those givers like they never considered in the past. And there will likely be more recipients in extremely complex financial situations in the near future. How do charities reach them and evaluate who is truly needy? It is time to be creative. And, perhaps, it is time to begin thinking about distributing the endowments -- maybe partially -- that Jewish charities have amassed in the recent period of prosperity and/or consolidating redundant organizations. I don't claim to know what is the best advice but it seems to me that someone should be thinking creatively about it.


    RCA Reacts to Madoff Scandal

    From the RCA (link):

    In Light of Madoff Scandal, RCA Recommits to Promoting Ethical Standards throughout the Jewish Community

    Dec 23, 2008 -- The Rabbinical Council of America, the largest Orthodox rabbinic group in the world, has today issued the following statement:

    In light of the prominent role of Jews, both as perpetrator and as victim, in the financial scandal involving Bernard Madoff, the Rabbinical Council of America wishes to state the following:

    Click here to read moreWe are distressed by the acts of deception and misuse of funds to which Mr. Madoff has reportedly confessed, and we are anguished by the suffering inflicted on individuals and organizations victimized by this scheme. He has caused untold harm across the full spectrum of the Jewish community and the Jewish people, and in the world at large.

    There is no reason to believe that such terrible behavior is more common among Jews, religious or not, than among non-Jews. Nevertheless, we must all redouble our efforts to inculcate the value of honesty and integrity across every denominational segment of the Jewish community. Breaking the law, dishonesty, victimizing the innocent, and the excessive pursuit of the material, are all antithetical to the very core of Judaism.

    At the same time, we note that the list of Jewish organizational victims underscores the remarkable scope of charitable activity within our community directed toward both Jews and non-Jews. Thus, the "Jewish" ydimension of this scandal, properly assessed, points to the ethical misdeeds of the few and the ethical commitments of the many. We can build on this reality as we take steps to strengthen educational and other projects that will enhance our adherence to the ethical obligations required by the Torah.

    The RCA recommits itself to working diligently as a rabbinic body to strengthen ethical and law-abiding behavior, by articulating and promoting the appropriate ethical values and practices throughout the Jewish community. In this regard it is to be noted that we expect to disseminate the initial report of our previously announced ethics initiative, titled Jewish Principles and Ethical Guidelines for Business and Industry (or JPEG B&I), in January 2009.


    Thursday, December 25, 2008

    How Do You Eat It, With Your Hands?

    I've had occasion to eat with colleagues at kosher delis and they invariably comment about the way I eat a pickle. I have a method for doing it. As I eat, I cut narrow horizontal slices, using my fork to hold the pickle in place and my knife to slice it. Someone always comments about my using a fork and knife, connecting it to an episode of Seinfeld in which people eat a Snickers bar with a fork and knife (link - "I am eating my dessert. How do you eat it, with your hands?").

    There is actually a halakhic basis to why I use a fork and knife in general, although I have to say that I really do it because I like the taste of a thin slice of pickle. Click here to read moreThe excellent website Revach raises this issue regarding eating a jelly donut on Chanukah (link). The post-Talmudic tractate of Masekhes Derekh Eretz Zuta (4:5) states that you should not hold a large (egg-sized) piece of food in your hand and eat from it, because it is bad manners and unpleasant for others to witness. This is quoted in the Shulchan Arukh (Orach Chaim 170:7). Based on this, the Eliyahu Rabbah writes that you should use utensils to cut pieces rather than using your hands.

    The question then arises what to do with food that is normally eaten by hand or in big pieces. Since people will not be offended, can you eat it with your hands and/or hold big pieces in your hand while you eat? This is relevant to sandwiches, falafel, pizza, pickles and many other foods, such as jelly donuts. The Piskei Teshuvos quotes the Responsa Or Le-Tziyon (2:46:7) as ruling leniently (contrary to George Costanza). However, he also quotes R. Ya'akov Yisrael Fischer who rules strictly, that you must not hold a large piece of food in your hands (he doesn't discuss using utensils).

    It seems to me, based on over three decades of pizza store patronage, that the common practice is to be lenient. Where certain foods are eaten with large pieces in your hands, you may do so -- for those foods.


    Ethical Dilemmas in Blogging

    A few weeks ago I spent Shabbos in YU. One of the talks I gave was about the ethical dilemmas of blogging. I had prepared my entire speech in writing but my computer died a few days prior and I had not printed it out. So, instead, I wrote up some notes. I think I said most of what is in here. Anyway, my computer is working again and below is what I had planned on saying. Please forgive the lack of polish and the use of the occasional Hebrew but I wrote this based on how I speak.


    Intro to Blogs

    Click here to read moreThank you all for taking time out of your short Shabbos day to hear me speak. I once spoke in front of a group and a very old man came late and missed the introduction. At the end, when I opened the floor for questions, he raised his hand and said, “I only have one question. What is this blog thing you keep talking about?”

    So, usually when I give a talk about blogs, I start out by explaining what a blog is. Given the audience here, that is probably not an issue. But bear with me anyway, just in case there is someone who needs to know.

    A blog is a website that contains information written in posts by one or many authors. What makes it unique is that each post is time-stamped and placed in reverse chronological order, with the most recent posts on top. That way, you can go to a blog and immediately find the new material on top. Additionally, there is generally a comments section where readers can post their own thoughts on the subject.

    Blogs can be about any topic. Whatever an author wants to write can be put on a blog. In theory, you can even put a whole newspaper on a blog, article by article. Some writers put book excerpts on blogs. For example, R. Yaakov Feldman has put many excerpts from his popular translations of Mussar classics onto his blog.

    There are three main types of blogs: News blogs, Cat blogs and Content blogs. News blogs give news updates. There are a few Jewish news blogs that publish articles and press releases on Jewish topics as well as some original reporting – the two most popular are The Yeshiva World and Vos Iz Neias.

    Cat blogs are the industry term for personal diaries, i.e. what your cat did this morning. People routinely reflect about their days, what they did with their friends or families, and often reveal way too much information than they should. Rabbosai, remember, once you put information on the internet you will never be able to completely remove. Be very careful.

    The third type is Content blogs. These are blogs that offer information and analysis. There are blogs about economics, which have gained a lot of popularity throughout the past year’s financial crisis, blogs about math, philosophy, sports, you name it. And, of course, there are blogs about Judaism. Some Jewish Content blogs focus on the parashah, others on Daf Yomi, others on manuscripts, etc. etc. I see my blog as being more general than that and I discuss parashah, halakhah, philosophy, dikduk, and more.

    Who blogs? Anyone who wants to. There are over 175 million blogs, although the vast majority have been abandoned – people started them and then gave up on them. For a blog to be read regularly, it has to be updated regularly. Most popular blogs are updated daily or almost-daily.

    Who reads blogs? I don’t know. I’ve taken surveys on my blog and the demographics skewed young but there are still plenty of readers over the age of 60. Readers seem to span the spectrum of economic classes and occupations – rabbis, teachers, lawyers, butchers, bakers, candlestick makers. I am aware of at least one time that a rosh yeshiva left a comment in his name on my blog – the only YU rosh yeshiva with an iPhone. Over the past few years, blogs have gained a certain amount of respectability – or at least are recognized as sometimes deserving consideration. Blogs have broken news stories and proven to be fertile ground for informal discussion of important topics.

    Many blogs are written anonymously, or more accurately under a pseudonym. There can be many reasons for this – not least of which is shiddukh concerns. I think anonymity is a necessary evil. It gives people the illusion that they can speak more freely. Sometimes this means that they can express their thoughts and concerns without fear, which is a good thing. But often it means they feel free to mock and insult people.

    The same goes for commenters. Most people who comment on blogs do so under a pseudonym, often changing fake names frequently although some people use a consistent pseudonym. Since comments are usually more off the cuff and less thought out than actual blog posts, they are also more insulting. Anonymous comments are usually the biggest offenders in blog aveiros.

    Value of Blogs

    OK, that’s a brief overview of what blogs are. What are they good for?

    For one thing, they are good for a quick thought. Blog posts are generally shorter than a full-sized essay, so if you are looking for a quick read – and in today’s ADD world a lot of people are – you can often find one on a blog. A vort on the parashah, a quick devar halackah or just a random musing on life... You can find one on a blog.

    You can also find experimental material on blogs. Maybe an author is preparing thoughts for a formal essay and wants to try it out and get some feedback. You can put it on a blog.

    Current events are also discussed on blogs. There was recently a frum filmmaker who made a movie with women singing. It was entered into a film festival but was rejected because the producer insisted that the movie only be shown to women and the film festival refused. Is there halakhic requirement for a filmmaker to insist on that condition? I don’t think so, and you will find discussion of that on a blog within days of the article if not sooner, while journals and even newspapers publish responses much later. If you are an author and you want to respond to a current event, blogs offer a much more timely option. And, because of the news, readers are interested.

    Because of the ability of readers to comment, there is often discussion of the subject. People quote other poskim or offer their own different perspectives. They add detail that maybe only insiders know or they are experts or have asked experts and can offer an opinion based on that expertise. It has happened a number of times that students in yeshiva, this and others, have asked their rabbeim about the subject of one of my posts and come back to let us know what they said.

    This is part of a unique aspect of blogs in that it breaks down communal and geographic boundaries. There is one reader of my blog from Israel who is very close to the author of some sefarim that I like to quote – Piskei Teshuvos. A few times, this reader has asked the rav about subjects I’ve discussed and either e-mailed me or posted a comment about what the rav replied. In this way, blogs allows us entry into other communities so that we can share with each other.

    The same is true about what we described as Cat blogs. I don’t think it is as popular now as it was a few years ago, but there are people in far-off communities, both geographically and socially, who write about their daily lives and offer us fascinating windows into their worlds. For example, there are Chassidim who blog about the davening on Shabbos and the rebbe’s tish they went to. There are people living in Shomron writing about their daily lives in the danger or not-so-danger zone. Not only does it put a face on what would otherwise just be a stereotype, but it let’s us connect with them and develop friendships. It breaks down the barrier of the “other” and in some ways helps unite the Jewish community. It is also an invaluable tool in understanding the trends in the Jewish community. Even though there is the obvious drawback that blogs only give you a partial picture of what is going on in any community. Despite that, if you want to understand where things are moving then you can get invaluable information from blogs. Recently, I posted a video that some people found offensive. It featured a Chassid singing about how he wants to be a rebbe so he can have a fancy lifestyle. I see how it can be seen as mildly offensive but I found it important because it shows where the minds of at least a segment of the Chassidic community currently is. The song/video resonated with many people. To me, that is sociologically significant.

    Some people will tell you that blogs are bad. A few years ago, I heard a Shabbos Shuvah derashah in which the rav – of a yeshivish shul (not my regular one) – spent a good portion of the time saying how horrible and destructive blogs are. And not long ago Agudah had a session at its annual convention in which blogs were the main target. To the point where the mashgiach in Lakewood said that there should be no room in yeshivos for the children of bloggers. I kid you not.

    Lefi aniyus da’ati (in my opinion), these rabbanim are technically right but can say it better. Let me explain to you what I mean. The Gemara in Avodah Zarah says that le-asid lavo Hashem will ask who was involved in the Torah and various nations will come forward and say that they built roads and bridges so boys could travel to yeshiva to learn, they manufactured candles and lamps so people could learn at night, and so on. They built an infrastructure so that people could learn Torah. And Hashem will respond that it’s not true. They built all that infrastructure and technology for their own use and incidentally, derekh agav, it was used for learning Torah. So they can’t take credit for it. Just like, for example, Al Gore did increase the budget for the defense network known as Arpanet that eventually became the Internet, but he did it for defense reasons and certainly didn’t anticipate what it would become.

    You can ask: How could these people lie to Hashem and say that what they did was for the sake of learning Torah when it really wasn’t? The Brisker Rav has a lomdishe answer but I think the ba’alei mussar would point out the incredible ability of people to rationalize their actions and convince themselves of things that aren’t true. I don’t know that the nations will intentionally lie to Hashem. Maybe they’ll realize that they should have been learning Torah and then convince themselves that to some extent they had meant for every community to benefit from the infrastructure, including the Jews who could use it to learn Torah. Therefore, they’ll convince themselves, they can legitimately claim that they built all of it for the sake of Torah. While they might be able to fool themselves, they won’t be able to fool Hashem.

    When Rav Schachter says over that Gemara, he likes to add technologies that were invented after the Gemara: telephones so Jews can listen to a Daf Yomi shiur, satellites so they can transmit shiurim like Rav Ovadiah Yosef does, and the internet so people can download shiurim from YU Torah and other websites. These are all things that people invented for their own purposes but we can use for Torah.

    It is my belief that technology is pareve. It isn’t good or bad. The same nuclear energy that destroyed Nagasaki and Hiroshima can be used to power hospitals and schools. The Torah tells us that Tuval-Cain had a similar name to Cain because he improved on Cain’s sin of murder. How? By improving the technology for forging metal and creating better weapons. Rabbosai, I don’t have to tell you that metal can be used for many good things. The buses and trains that take people to work and yeshiva are made from metal. It’s all a matter of how you use that technology.

    Here’s a question for you: Are telephones good or bad? Should the Agudah have held a session in last week’s convention condemning the use of telephones and insisting that any child whose family has a telephone should be kicked out of yeshiva? Maybe yes. It is such an instrument of slander, pritzus, nivul peh. Criminals plan their crimes on telephones. Avodah zarah, shefikhus damim, giluy arayos... you name it; it’s coordinated and facilitated via telephone.

    But that’s the same telephone through which thousands of people would call Rav Moshe Feinstein and ask him she’eilos. You can, to some degree at least, use a telephone to be menachem avel and mevaker choleh. How can it be bad? Who today would say that it is bad? Instead they would say that using it for bad purposes is bad.

    If you use a knife to assist in an idolatrous ceremony it becomes unfit for cutting meat. Does that mean that knives are bad? No, we hold that hazmanah lav milsa, setting aside a utensil for bad use does not make the utensil unfit. It is only the actual use of the knife to assist in avodah zarah that makes it bad. It’s more complicated and I’m simplifying here. But I think you get my drift. The same, I believe, holds true for all forms of technology. They aren’t good or bad. It’s all a matter of how you use them.

    While the internet was not invented for the sake of Talmud Torah, so no credit for Al Gore, it is in our power to use it that way. We can use it for posting shiurim, divrei torah and other forms of positive, Torah-oriented purposes. Whether it’s organizing a protest to help an agunah or posting shul zemanim, there are many ways to use the internet in a positive way.

    One of the dangers of the internet is its anti-social nature. You’re probably thinking “What?” I remember my first exposure to e-mail. I was an undergrad in YU and was typing a paper in the computer lab in Belfer Hall. Some guys I knew were sitting at computers looking less than serious, some even laughing. When I was walking out, I stopped by one guy I knew and asked him what he was doing. He said he was exchanging e-mails with some girls at Stern. I said that, you know, we have telephones here and a shuttle van that will take you to Midtown, and he gave me a look like I was some old geezer who just doesn’t get it. A look you’ll all become familiar with when you have children. I didn’t actually send an e-mail until I was at my second job. Anyway, how can it be anti-social if it allows people to communicate? Whether through e-mail, blogs, Facebook, whatever.

    It can. What often happens online is that you find like-minded people and spend more and more of your time with them. This means that you are spending less and less time with the people around you – your roommates, your classmates, your family, your neighbors and shulmates, etc. Also, since you choose to be around people who think like you, you end up living in an echo chamber where certain ideas are repeated and emphasized until you think they are obvious and no one disagrees with them. I see this happen to people all the time. Political conservatives just talk amongst themselves and get each other outraged at Liberals, without ever taking the time to have a discussion with a rational Liberal. When you do this, immerse yourself in a homogeneous culture, you cut yourself off in many ways from personal growth and inevitably from people who surround you in real life.

    However, the other side of the internet is the exact opposite – it allows you to interact with people from very different backgrounds who can add immensely to your perspective on the world. Even just within the Orthodox world, the internet has allowed me to better understand the different ideologies from around the world and recognize the challenges and benefits of various communities.

    Now, if you want to educate your children to be exactly like you and not to know that there are different paths in life then that could be a bad thing. But I don’t think that is the message of YU. YU, it seems to me, embraces diversity. But within a limit, and this is where we hit an important point.

    Ethical Dilemmas

    I. The internet, and in particular blogs, opens up access to a vast world, the majority of which is not Jewish and not frum. Diversity of perspectives is good, but not at the expense of Torah and mitzvos. I don’t demand that my children be like me but I certainly want them to be frum. How do we use the internet as a tool to expand our horizons without risking the danger of leaving the frum community entirely?

    I believe that this is probably the single most crucial dilemma of blogging and the internet. We can’t ignore it because the internet is not going to go away any time soon. You can try banning it but good luck with that. A friend of mine drove through Lakewood about a year after the internet was banned there. He drove slowly around various frum neighborhoods with his laptop next to him and he tried to connect to any wireless networks that were available. Rabbosai, he was amazed at how many families not only have internet access but wireless. I don’t even have wireless. Banning doesn’t work.

    What we need to do instead is to educate. If someone has a strong foundation in Torah and emunah, and uses the internet carefully, then there should not be much danger there. A confident Jew has no need to fear. A Jew who believes what his religion teaches will read attacks on it, on the rare occasions that he stumbles onto them, and will say “That’s a good question” and move on. He will see the beauty of someone else’s lifestyle and thank Hashem for making the right path for everyone.

    For healthy people, the internet is not dangerous if you use it as a tool for good. However, Reb Chaim was known to describe both mussar and philosophy as a strong medicine that heals those who are sick but makes those who are healthy sick. The internet is the other way around. It makes those who are healthy even healthier and those who are sick even sicker. It’s like the old NRA saying, the internet doesn’t kill people, people kill people. But like guns, the internet makes for a powerful tool.

    So what’s the answer? I don’t have one. We aren’t able to get rid of the internet any more than we are able to get rid of the telephone. We need to better educate our youth as healthy Jews, that’s for sure, but we will never be able to be completely successful in that. And we also need to teach proper internet skills, such as how to avoid a lot of the trash that’s out there and how even factual articles can be written in a biased way.

    Last Shabbos I read a recently published booklet by ATID, an organization about Jewish education. The booklet contains articles from a symposium about the future of Jewish education. It’s a fascinating collection; you might have read about it on my blog. There is one article that I’d like to highlight right now. R. Mark Gottlieb, the principal of MTA, wrote a great piece about the need to teach kids a worldview. Without detracting from the importance of teaching facts, the most fundamental element of Jewish education is teaching students to see the world through the lenses of a believing Jew. This means that you have a core of emunah and you evaluate everything from the perspective of Judaism. That is how to live a Jewish life. And, particularly important for this audience at YU, that is the fundamental concept of Modern Orthodoxy. When you look at everything from a Jewish worldview, then you are properly placed to take in all the great works of culture and all the sciences and the liberal arts. Everything you read, hear or see you assimilate into your Jewish framework. That is what Torah Im Derekh Eretz is about and, to a large extent, that is what Torah U-Madda is about.

    When you read a great work of literature, aside from enjoying it esthetically, you extract the messages and evaluate them from a Torah hashkafah. And not just great works of literature. You can do the same for Harry Potter and Batman comic books. You find the elements that describe human nature and you evaluate them. Maybe you agree with the description and maybe you disagree. Either way, you are richer for having had the discussion. But that only works if you start with a Judaism-based point of view. You need that Jewish core in order to properly assimilate and evaluate the outside material.

    Rabbi Gottlieb is an educator and he wrote about this topic as a professional. I believe an extended version of his article was recently published in the Orthodox Forum book on Yiras Shamayim. I’m not an educator. I don’t know how to teach. But one of the things I try to do with my blog is to teach by example, to discuss a wide variety of topics from a Jewish perspective. Sometimes I fall back on my yeshiva training and simply discuss issues from a halakhic perspective. That’s not really what we’re talking about but I think it qualifies a little bit. But other times I try, hopefully sometimes successfully, to bring that Jewish core to bear on a number of relevant topics.

    My message here is that the internet is dangerous. If you take care to avoid the trash and start out with a Torah-based worldview, then the exposure to the outside world will enrich your lives. How to ensure that everyone has that worldview is beyond my expertise. I leave that to educators like Rabbi Gottlieb.

    II. This brings us to another ethical dilemma, one with which I am having an ongoing struggle. That is the issue of kefirah, heresy, on the internet. Something about the nature of the internet, maybe the sense of freedom that accompanies anonymity or maybe something else, but for some reason there are many frum-friendly blogs that attempt to undermine traditional Judaism by teaching, really more advocating, kefirah. What I mean by frum-friendly is people who used to be frum, maybe still even act frum, and know how to use frumspeak to make their content welcoming to frum Jews. Through a combination of argumentation, cynicism and mockery they make the argument against Orthodox Judaism. The question for me is how I am supposed to relate to them. Should I engage them in debate? I don’t think so. The Gemara in Sanhedrin specifically says not to debate Jewish heretics because it will only make them worse off, which my experience and observation confirms.

    Should I attempt to refute them? I don’t necessarily have all the answers but I think I have a lot of them. A lot of this is a matter of presentation and should I spend my time in building the proper presentation so that I can dispute them? After all, my time is severely limited. And, for that matter, so is my scholarship. I don’t have any advanced degrees in Jewish Studies or Bible or, actually, in anything. I don’t have any advanced degrees.

    And there is also a problem of introducing many of my readers to kefirah who otherwise would be unaware of it. Some of my readers have taken graduate courses in Bible while others are yeshiva bochurim who have never studied Bible beyond being ma’avir sedra, reviewing the weekly Torah portion. Do I want the responsibility on my shoulders for introducing these yeshiva bochurim to biblical criticism? A rabbi recently asked me about this and pointed out that he, a YU musmakh, was not aware of biblical criticism until later in life when he started listening to Dr. Leiman’s tapes. Him, a Yeshiva College graduate and a YU musmakh. If he hadn’t listened to those tapes, I would probably have been the one who introduced him to it. Is that what I should be doing?

    But it gets even more complicated. There are some ideas which are not heretical but in the eyes of someone educated in the yeshivishe world they seem to be. For example, the vast majority of rishonim do not believe that Hashem directly guides everything that happens in this world. Hashgachah Peratis, individual providence, is not universal and rarely constant. We’re talking about the Rambam, Ramban, Sefer Ha-Chinukh,… the big names of medieval Jewish philosophy. And there are more recent authorities who follow these views. But in the yeshivish and chassidish worlds these types of views are considered heretical. Can I discuss these ideas on my blog? What happens to a yeshiva bochur who realizes that what he’s always been taught is kefirah is actually the view of most Rishonim? Do I want that responsibility for causing him a potential faith crisis?

    But here’s the other side of the coin. What happens if, due to these serious potential negative outcomes, we never discuss these issues in public? I think, to some extent, this has happened for decades. To a large extent we’ve avoided public discussion of difficult theological questions, probably for many reasons but this might have been one of them. What has happened is that many people don’t realize that we know about these things. Not people who take Bible and philosophy courses at YU, or who pay attention during those courses, but many other people. And when they learn Iyov with the Ramban’s commentary, or they learn Sefer Ha-Chinukh carefully, they become shocked. They’ve single-handedly disproved their rabbeim. Or when they gain exposure to kefirah, whether through the internet or talking to people outside of their community, they become shocked. They feel their entire worldview falling apart. Rabbosai, I’ve seen it happen and it is like watching a train wreck in slow motion. A person’s life falls apart that way and however he manages to put the pieces back together, it isn’t pretty. It’s a religious disaster. A little inoculation goes a long way. It makes all the difference to know that there are issues out there that might not interest you but that other frum people have under control.

    The Gemara in Bava Basra (89b) has a very interesting reflection that R. Yochanan Ben Zakkai makes. He is dealing with issues of the different ways that sellers cheat buyers, and exactly what is assur. R. Yochanan Ben Zakkai says that he has a dilemma. “Oy li im omar, oy li im lo omar”. If he teaches the halakhos in detail, people might learn from him how to cheat. If he doesn’t teach the details, people will think that the rabbis don’t know about these things. It’s a no-win situation. Now I recognize that there are important distinctions between my dilemma and R. Yochanan Ben Zakkai’s. I’m dealing with introducing kefirah to an innocent bystander and he is dealing with encouraging cheaters. But here is the powerful part. The Gemara asks what his conclusion was: Did he teach the laws in detail or not? The answer is that he did. Why? Because of the pasuk, “Yesharim darkhei Hashem, tzadikim yelkhu vam u-resha’im yikashlu vam.” It’s learning Torah. What can be wrong with that? The good will succeed and the bad will go off. But, in the end, learning Torah is OK.

    In some yeshivos they don’t allow unmarried boys to learn certain parts of Gemara that deal with, shall we say, delicate matters. For example, Masekhes Nidah. That is for married men. However, the minhag in Volozhin was that the boys would learn everything. Regardless of whether there is a supposed ayin ha-ra about learning about aveilus or an impropriety with learning about women, the boys would learn it. It’s learning Torah. Tzadikim yelkhu vam. The She’arim Metzuyanim Ba-Halakhah writes in his introduction about his personal dilemma of whether to include in his sefer opinions that he thinks are too lenient. He quotes the Gemara about R. Yochanan Ben Zakkai and concludes that he is teaching Torah. It is up to the readers to utilize his sources properly and he is confident that they will. Interestingly, the Munkaczer Rebbe, the Darkhei Teshuvah, wrote in his introduction that he included the opinions of one sefer that he felt was overly lenient. The reason he gives is so that people won’t say that he wasn’t aware of that sefer. He wants to make sure that people know he was aware and disagreed anyway.

    I think all of this is relevant to my dilemma. In the end, we’re talking about discussing Torah issues – the biblical text, theology, etc. It’s Talmud Torah. Tzadikim yelkhu vam and, unfortunately, resha’im yikashlu vam. If we don’t discuss these issues then we run the risk of people thinking we aren’t aware of them. There is a psychologist named Dr. Daniel Eidensohn who is a talmid chakham in Jerusalem and he put together a book of selected passages from classical Jewish sources on a wide variety of hashkafah issues. The book is called Daas Torah and he maintains a blog with the same name. In a recent post (link), he wrote about his conversation with Rav Eliashiv about his publishing a book with a spectrum of opinions on hashkafah topics. Is it acceptable? Won't it confuse yeshiva bochurim? Rav Eliashiv responded that if they are confused then they should ask their rosh yeshiva or rebbe. You don't avoid teaching Torah just because it will raise questions. That is exactly what we are talking about.

    However, there are two things that I am fairly insistent on: 1) that these are only tangential issues and the vast majority of the blog is about wholesome issues, even if sometimes controversial, generally in a different way, and 2) that a traditional response always be there. The Midrash says that every time in the Chumash there is a passage that leaves room open for heresy – such as “na’aseh adam be-tzalmeinu ki-dmuseinu”, WE should make man in OUR image and OUR form – there is a traditional response next to it: “Va-yivra Elokim es ha-Adam be-tzalmo”, Hashem and only Hashem created man in His, in the singular, image. I think it is crucial that any link or discussion of kefirah have a traditional response that is powerful and convincing. Of course, convincing is in the eye of the beholder. But we have to use our best judgment.

    III. And finally, let’s talk about lashon ha-ra. That seems to be the biggest complaint about blogs, and rightly so. Lashon ha-ra is bad and blogs make it worse. There are blogs that do any of a number of improper things, such as reveal private information, mock and insult communal leaders, misrepresent statements so as to create an imagined controversy. I can go on but I think that is bad enough. Some people whom I love and respect have been targets of blogs, and so have I. How do we deal with this?

    Let me first start out by making a comparison that I make frequently. Above we asked whether the internet is different from telephones. Should telephones be assur because you can use them for bad? If not, then why should the internet. Let’s go a little further. As we said earlier, blogs are tools. Newspapers, magazines and books are also tools and they can be used to transmit the same improper messages that we just attributed to blogs. I won’t go into too much detail but I’ll tell you a quick story that you might find humorous. When I was in YU, there was a former student of Rav Soloveitchik, fairly knowledgeable in Torah, who had totally lost his marbles and had a vendetta against Rav Schachter and Rav Aharon Lichtenstein. He was so bad that he was banned from the YU campus and all security desks had pictures of him to prevent him from entering. Anyway, Rav Schachter once spoke at an informal question and answer session with JSS students, mainly kids from public school backgrounds. One of those students then wrote an article about the session for The Commentator. Somehow, there was a miscommunication and the student, who was new to yeshiva, misunderstood Rav Schachter as saying that he approved of ordaining women as rabbis. Of course, everyone here knows how ridiculous that is. Anyway, this crazy student of Rav Soloveitchik saw the article in The Commentator and then contacted all the Jewish media outlets until one of them took the story, and this crazy rabbi’s word, and ran a front page story about how Rav Schachter favors the ordination of women rabbis. It’s ridiculous but it’s damaging to Rav Schachter, to YU, and to the community at large.

    Should we oppose all newspapers because of this? Should we oppose this particular newspaper because of this incident or do we accept its apology and retraction? I don't hear people condemning newspapers as a medium but rather specific newspapers and their particular flaws. It seems to me that the same standard should be applied to blogs. Cut people some slack, offer constructive advice, encourage responsible bloggers. But don’t give up on the whole medium simply because of growing pains and mistakes, any more than you give up on other media due to problems. Problems can be fixed. But the medium isn’t going to go away just because you disapprove of it.

    So, taking into account the laws of lashon ha-ra, is a blogger allowed to criticize a public figure or an article? I’m not qualified to pasken on such an issue, both due to the limits of my expertise and my obvious bias. However, I’ll refer to an article by R. Asher Meir. He writes the column The Jewish Ethicist that is syndicated in many places, including the Aish HaTorah website. Rabbi Meir addresses precisely this issue and concludes that while you aren’t allowed to discuss private individuals, public figures put themselves into the public eye and we are allowed – even expected – to discuss public aspects of their lives. Now, in the last sentence I used the word “public” three times. That was intentional. We are allowed to criticize aspects of a public figure’s behavior if they are relevant. The assumption is that he intentionally puts those issues out there for discussion. He is, so to speak, matir atzmo le-misah. But that means that irrelevant private matters should be kept private. And, generally speaking, beating up on his family is not allowed. Also, and I don’t think Rabbi Meir says this explicitly but it is understood, we should be fair. We can write strongly but we should never mock or insult and we should always, always be polite.

    After discussion with Rabbi Meir, I came up with a number of bullet points to summarize his conclusions. Let me read you two of them:

    - You may discuss negative stories about general public leaders provided that you are certain that the stories are true (or adds appropriately worded caveats), you have no ulterior motives and you are not causing any harm to the individuals.

    - You must judge a talmid chakham generously and go out of your way to give him the benefit of the doubt. Therefore, you must be extremely cautious in discussing negative stories (or stories that appear negative) about talmidei chakhamim.

    Let’s talk about these carefully. We all know that there are negative stories about some Jewish leaders in the media. Sometimes scandalous stories but other times just negative. If you are just discussing the issue, without any ulterior motives or causing harm, then that’s OK. These are public figures and have opened themselves up for discussion. It is truly rare that you actually know that these stories are true. In fact, too often these types of stories have turned out to be false in a small but crucial way. So, practically speaking, what you have to end up doing is using careful language that includes phrases like “If this is true…” or “It is claimed…” Like the news, blogs should become acquainted with the word “alleged”.

    And you also have to judge people favorably. You have to be melamed le-khaf zekhus. Let’s not get into what is an absolute obligation and what is simply a midas chassidus, a praiseworthy practice. It shouldn’t matter to us. Either way, look for the way out. You can discuss the issue and say that it may or may not be true, and it could be that… whatever, which would mean that it isn’t a negative story.

    The point is that there ways of discussing these types of issues without violating the laws of lashon ha-ra. You just have to be careful in your language and generous in your judgment.

    By the way, the same goes for someone who publishes an article or a blog. He is putting his ideas out into the public arena and is opening them up for criticism. You are allowed to criticize them – again, fairly and politely.

    There is much more that we can discuss but time doesn’t allow. I just want to remind everyone that the halakhos of lashon ha-ra apply equally to commenters as to bloggers, and that means you. The ethics of commenting, unfortunately, have to be left for another time. Thank you all for listening to me patiently and, more or less, without dozing off.


    Wednesday, December 24, 2008

    Parashah Roundup: Miketz-Chanukah 5769

    by Steve Brizel

    Yosef's Dreams and Pharoah's Dreams
  • R. Amnon Bazak explains the relationship between Yosef's dreams and his interpretation of Pharoah's dreams:link
  • R. Yissocher Frand reminds us that we should not remind someone that we have done a favor for of that fact: link
  • R. Yitzchak Adlerstein, based upon the Nesivos Shalom, impresses upon us the importance of Chesed on a daily basis and why our daily Avodah must have elements of Aseh Tov and SurMeRah: link
  • R. Mayer Twersky posits Yosef as a role model for every Torah observant Jew should behave in the workplace: link

  • Click here to read moreYaakov and Yosef
  • R. Ezra Bick explores the relationship between Yaakov and Yosef,and why Yehudah assumes the role of leadership: link
  • R. Ephraim Buchwald, based upon the Malbim, notes that while that the Halacha rejects Midah Kneged Midah, there are instances where Midah Kneged Midah in this Parsha and elsewhere in Tanach can serve as a basis to explain a Biblical narrative: link

  • Yosef's Reunion with his Brothers
  • R. Berel Wein reminds us that tears of hope can erase from our vision scenes of trials and tribulations, failures and weaknesses: link
  • R. Yitzchak Etshalom discusses many issues raised by the reunion of Yosef and his brothers: link
  • R. Michael Rosensweig explains why Yosef did not just forgive his brothers totally: link (audio)
  • R. Dovid Horwitz, based in part on a Chumash shiur by Rav Soloveitchik zt"l, exhorts us to remember to exercise our free will in a positive manner so as to avoid the need for the recognition made by Yosef's brothers of the gravity of their errors: link
  • R. Avraham Gordimer explains the significance of Yosef's goblet in the reunion between Yosef and his brothers: link
  • R. Baruch Simon explores why Yosef named one of his sons Menashe: link
  • R. Jonathan Sacks explains why Yosef did not recognize his brothers (and why Chanukah is a home centered holiday: link

  • Shabbos Channukah

    Avraham, Gidon and the Hasmoneans
  • R. Yaakov Medan explains the rationales of Avraham Avinu, Gidon and the Hasmoneans in going to war: link

  • The Menorah, the War , Judaism and Greek Culture
  • R. Aharon Lichenstein warns not to divorce the State of Israel from Torah and reminds us of the differences between the Greek and Jewish perspectives in all cultural and religious goals: link 1, link 2
  • R. Avigdor Nevenzal explains why Channukah includes a strong element of Hakaras Hatov: link
  • R. Aharon Lichtenstein emphasizes the elements of restoration and innovation in Channukah: link

  • Hilchos Channukah
  • R. Hershel Schachter discusses Hadlakas Neros Channukah on Erev Shabbos and Motzaei Shabbos: link (audio)
  • R. Asher Weiss discusses Zman Hadlakas Ner Channukah and Ner Channukah and Hidur Mitzvah: link
  • R. Dovid Gottlieb explores the unique role of Hiddur Mitzvah in Hilcos Channukah: link
  • R. Shlomo Riskin asks why there was a need for a miracle of the cruise of oil in addition to the miracle of the military victory: link

  • Last year's roundup: link


    Audio Roundup XXII

    by Joel Rich

  • Rav J B Soloveitchik - Al Hanisim Chanuka: link

    Fascinating broad discussion from 1971. Topics include the historical role of the individual vs. the group. The role of Chashmonaim as teachers. The pre-Macabeem period as the first example of religious persecution and the Greeks as missionaries for their culture. X theology as indirect cause of holocaust. Rebirth of Russian Jewry and the American Jewish support of Israel as compared to the holocaust.

    Ksheamda malchut yavan al amcha – the antidote to opposition is our unity towards our goal. There will always be opposition, but they won’t be successful.

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  • Rabbi Dovid Gottlieb - Bar and Bat Mitzvah Celebrations: link

    Is 13 meaningful by itself? Sources for age and hair standards.
    Issue of nature of Bar Mitzvah celebration (see last audio roundup) and thus the importance (or lack thereof) of bo bayom and nature of bat mitzvah celebration (very “meta”).
    Some sources on elaborate bar mitzvah celebrations (my take – function of the times – is the elaboration (and this applies imho to many “mitzvoth”) due to true simcha shel mitzvah or something else? (What could that possibly be??).

  • Rabbi Aryeh Lebowitz - 'Mumbai' May We Say the Word?: link

    Not mentioning the names of idols? Interesting question – when does a pulpit Rabbi announce a position on a question which seems counter to common practice? When should “higher authorities” be consulted first?

  • Rabbi Hershel Schachter - VaYishlach: link

    Discussion includes who (not) to honor at the shul dinner, does gid hanasheh remind us to do kavod av or to teach us ein mazal l’yisrael, when was the mitzvah of gid hanasheh really given, geirut/kabbalat ol mitzvoth, who was Devorah and kol yosheveha aleha implies all the Shevatim (not just majority of people) must be back.

  • Rabbi Aaron Rakeffet-Rothkoff - R' Hershel Schachter on Women's Minyanim: link

    Tshuvot on womens’ tfila groups – R’Moshe Feinstein, R’Mashash and R’Hershel Schachter. Men and women are different but of equal stature in G-ds eyes (separate but equal?). Don’t talk down to feminists.

  • Rabbi Kenneth Brander - My Egg, My Husband, Her Womb, Whose Child: link

    Who is father in case of surrogate motherhood? Clearly sperm source! Who is mother – egg donor, surrogate, both, neither (1st 2 are most popular positions). Some suggest do geirut lchumarah due to doubt. Many halachik nafka mina’s – yerusha kavod av/eim.

  • Dr. Shira Weiss - History Tends to Repeat Itself: Contemporary Lessons of Chanukah: link

    Chanukah story, Megilat Ruth and Shir Hashirm all show need for both compassion and commitment to our vision.

  • Rabbi Dovid Gottlieb - Noach's Challenges After the Flood: link

    Messages from HKB”H to Noach after the flood parallel those to Adam (i.e. a new creation story).

  • Rabbi I Oron - Halacha Refua: link

    Good discussion of definition death issues.

  • Rabbi Zvi Sobolofsky - Hilchos Tzitzis Part 1: link

    Mitzvah Kiyumit (sort of). Discussion of machloket on necessity of tzemer/pishtim or duraita level.

  • Rabbi Hershel Schachter - Aspects of Rosh Chodesh: link

    Potpourri of related topics. Why lunar calendar? (i) message of Jewish history (wax & wane) (ii) implication of all from HKB”H (moon is reflected energy [reminds me R’YBS on zeh hakatan gadol yihiyeh]). Chiyuv of Simcha too!

  • Rabbi Taubes - Mourning: link

    Is Aninut (really meito mutual Lfanav) a duraita or drabannan ptur from mitzvoth-plus some implications. Issues of who it affects (e.g. Rabboinu Tam focus on husband) and when (is chevra kadisha = ketafim = no more aninut)?
    Listen to some of the Yutorah-Riets smicha shiurim on aveilut to get a true picture of the breadth of practice!

  • Rabbi A Bazak - Eliyahu: link 1, link 2

    Parallel language between har hacarmel and midbar/mishkan (but remember that was followed by Nadav & Avihu). Note it didn’t rain right away – again his theme of Eliyahv needing a “tikkun” for implying he was the “rainmaker”.
    Why did Eliyahu run away thereafter (almost Jonah-like)? Perhaps he expected Ahav to put his foot down with Jezebel and the people to really change. Saw it not happening and was myaesh? (Great mussar to aristarchs).

    Parallels and differences between Eliyahu, Moshe and Jonah. Bottom line – need to work with even partial Tshuva rather than curse the darkness.

  • Rabbi Ezra Schwartz - Contemporary Halacha Chazara Shiur II: link

    Detailed review of halacha l’maaseh shiurim including hechsher mitzvah haketuva bkra, kavannah in sukka, mitzvah haba baveira, piyutim and cohanim in med school.

  • Rabbi Shmuel Maybruch - The Butternut Squash Issue: Exploring Bishul Akum & Pas Akum: link

    Good review of the basics. Interesting discussion of some ou vs. star-k positions (potato chips, canned tuna, steamed veggies, “the Heineman bulb”) as well as in-house help issues. Each organization seems to have its own chumrot and kulot.

  • Rabbi Azarya Berzon - The Talmid-Rebbi Relationship: Does It Apply To Women?: link

    Primarily a discussion of being makbil pnei rabo. Is it part of the mitzvah of limud torah or perhaps it replaces going to mikdash/being in front of shechina.

  • Tuesday, December 23, 2008

    Yehudah's Story

    Chapter 38 of Bereishis, the story of Yehudah and Tamar, is a somewhat jarring interruption to the Yosef story that raises questions on more than one level. The obvious issue is the actions of the people involved. Let us set that aside and take the text as it is, and deal with a more global issue -- the interruption this story poses to the Yosef narrative. Why is the Yehudah story stuck in the middle?

    Click here to read moreI. Two Perspectives

    Rashi answers this question twice, which itself raises a question. On 38:1, Rashi writes (Sharfman 1949 translation): "Why was this section adjoined here and it interrupted the section of Joseph? To teach that his (Judah's) brothers removed him from his rank when they saw the grief of their father." In other words, the acts in the prior verses directly led to Yehudah's predicament here. That is why this story interrupts the Yosef story at precisely this point.

    On 39:1, Rashi writes: "(The Torah) returns to the first subject. But it interrupted it so as to adjoin the downfall of Judah to the selling of Joseph, to tell (us) that because of him (Joseph) they brought him down from his greatness. Also, so as to adjoin the account of the wife of Potiphar to the account of Tamar..." Here Rashi gives two different reasons why the Yehudah story interrupted the Yosef story, both different from the one he gave previously.

    Until recently, most commentators said something along the lines of the first Rashi -- that the Yehudah story interrupted the Yosef story for chronological reasons. However, over the past 30 years or so, biblical scholars have come to another conclusion that I think is more in line with the second Rashi and the midrash that underlies both of his comments.

    Both of Rashi's comments are based on Midrash Rabbah 85:2:
    Why is this section connected to that one? R. Elazar and R. Yochanan. R. Elazar said: In order to adjoin a decline to a decline. R. Yochanan said: In order to adjoin an "identify" to an "identify". R. Shimon Bar Nachman said: In order to adjoin the act of Tamar to the act of Potiphar's wife...
    According to this midrash, the Yehudah story has certain textual similarities to the passages that come before and after it. That is why it was placed where it was. Those who are familiar with midrash will recognize that the intended similarities are not just linguistic but also thematic.

    Modern commentators have adopted approaches that expand (probably unknowingly) on these ideas in generally two complementary ways. The first, and perhaps main, answer of modern scholarship to this problem is to say that the Yehudah story is not an interruption to the Yosef story but adds to it by providing a contrast and emphasizing some of its themes.

    II. Themes

    The deceit of the brothers is highlighted by Yehudah's experience. Tamar's deception of Yehudah is a parallel to the brothers' deception of Ya'akov (emphasized by the words "haker na -- identify"). The goat in whose blood Yosef's coat was dipped to deceive Ya'akov was even used by Tamar to deceive Yehudah. This not only emphasizes the brothers' guilt but is also a fitting punishment for Yehudah's role in the brothers' deception.

    The passage further shows how Yosef was not entirely free of blame for the animosity his brothers had for him. Yosef's inability to separate himself from the identity assigned him by his clothing, even to save himself, is contrasted to Tamar's removing her widow clothes in order to change her fate. She did not allow her clothes to define her. (Cf. Robert Alter, The Art of Biblical Narrative, pp. 5-12; Gordon Wenham, Word Biblical Commentary, Genesis vol. 2 pp. 363-365; Yishayahu Leibowitz, Seven Years of Discourses on the Weekly Torah Reading, pp. 146-147.)

    All of these points serve to explain and emphasize elements of the Yosef story. This is all a connection to the prior section. There is also a connection to the subsequent section.

    Tamar's seduction of Yehudah can be contrasted to the unholy attempt by Potiphar's wife (although the midrash uses this connection to justify the actions of Potiphar's wife). Potiphar's wife withholds Yosef's clothes in order to accuse an innocent man while Tamar withholds Yehudah's items in order to prove the truth. Tamar attempts to continue her dead husbands' name, thereby giving him honor, while Potiphar's wife attempts to dishonor her husband by cheating on him. There is also the contrast between Yehudah's response to immorality and Yosef's. Yosef runs away from it at great personal cost while Yehudah seems to willingly embrace it. These points also serve to highlight elements of the Yosef story, but the future story and not the past. (Cf. David W. Cotter, Berit Olam: Studies in Hebrew Narrative & Poetry, Genesis, p. 285; James Mckeown, Two Horizons Old Testament Commentary, Genesis p. 167.)

    Additionally, the change in Yehudah that is evident in his confession of "tzadekah mimeni -- she is more righteous than I" is crucial for the Yosef story. This is the turning point for him in which he changes from the one to suggest that the brothers sell Yosef to the one who will admit that they were wrong. Without this story within the story, it would be difficult to understand the later actions of Yehudah. (Cf. Everett Fox, The Five Books of Moses, pp. 178-180, cited by Cotter, pp. 277-278.)

    III. Layouts

    One scholar shows the importance of this chapter to the Yosef story by mapping out the entire story as follows:
    A. Trouble between Joseph and his brothers (37:2-11)
    --A'. More trouble between Joseph and his brothers (37:12-36)
    B. Sexual temptation involving Judah (38:1-30)
    --B'. Sexual Temptation involving Joseph (39:1-23)
    C. Joseph interprets two dreams of prison mates (40:1-23)
    --C'. Joseph interprets two dreams of Pharaoh (41:1-57)
    D. Brothers come to Egypt for food (42:1-38)
    --D'. Brothers again come to Egypt for food (43:1-44:3)
    E. Joseph has some of his family brought to him (44:4-45:15)
    --E'. Joseph has all of his family brought to him (45:!6-47:12)
    F. Prospering in Egypt: Joseph in ascendancy (47:13-26)
    --F'. Prospering in Egypt: Blessings on Jacob's sons (47:27-49:32)
    G. Death of patriarch: Jacob (49:33-50:14)
    --G'. Death of patriarch: Joseph (50:15-26)
    (David Dorsey, The Literary Structure of the Old Testament, p. 59, cited in Cotter, p. 267)
    This literary map of the story connects the Yehudah story with the subsequent section. Another approach links it to the prior section:
    A. Joseph and the family strife he incites (37:1-36)
    --A'. Judah and the family strife he incites (38:1-30)
    B. The descent and ascent of Joseph (39:1-41:57)
    --B'. The descent and ascent of the brothers (42:1-47:27)
    C. Blessings: Joseph (47:28-48:22)
    --C'. Blessings: all the brothers (49:1-28)
    D. The end for Jacob (49:29-50:14)
    --D'. The end for Joseph (50:15-26)
    (Cotter, p. 268)
    IV. A Different Story

    Either way, we can see how the story fits in well with the overall structure. However, there is another aspect to its inclusion. All of the preceding shows how the Yehudah story fits into the Yosef story. Above, we said that modern scholars have two ways of dealing with the Yehudah story. One, as we just saw, is explaining the story as enhancing the Yosef story. However, there is another way.

    Recent scholars have changed the entire discussion by denying that there is a Yosef story. The way they see it, there is one big Ya'akov story -- the toledos (generations) of Ya'akov -- and both Yosef and Yehudah are a part of it. The Yehudah story explains how Yehudah had difficulty continuing Ya'akov's family until Tamar took control and the Yosef story tells how Yosef, who as a slave automatically lost the rights to his children to his master, became a free man and was able to continue Ya'akov's family. If the larger story is one of Ya'akov, then the question of why Yehudah's story interrupts Yosef's goes away. (Cf. R. Elchanan Samet, Studies in the Weekly Torah Portions, second series, vol. 1, pp. 192-194 [abridged English translation]; Cotter, pp. 263-266; Wenham, pp. 364-365, 369.)

    Setting this last point aside, we can now see why Rashi connects the Yehudah story to both the section before and after it. There are thematic links that connect the passage to the passages surrounding it on both sides.


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